Where do I even start?

Nobody prepares you for this. One step at a time is enough.

HOW TO USE THIS PAGE

One step, not the whole week.

Work down the first list. The second can wait until someone is with you.

RIGHT NOW

Immediate family should hear it from you, not from a post.

They handle transport and the legal steps, and you may take your time choosing one.

Start with a few certified copies; the funeral home can order them, and more can be added later if agencies ask.

Lock up, tell the landlord if renting, and arrange care for pets or dependents.

THIS WEEK

Their wishes first, then the family's, then the budget.

Federal law entitles you to an itemised list, and to decline any line on it.

Embalming is almost never required by law, whatever you may be told.

Name, dates, who survives them, service details, and where to send donations.